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Defining Trust
There are many definitions of the word “trust.” According to Merriam-Webster’s Dictionary, one definition of “trust” is “assured reliance on the character, ability, strength, or truth of someone or something.” Another way is to look at trust as a vulnerability. You are taking the risk of making something you value vulnerable to another person’s actions. Being vulnerable is not something that is easy to do. By understanding our own definition of “trust,” we can begin understanding how others trust, which in turn will assist in clear communication and conflict navigation.
Some questions to ask yourself as you navigate trust would be: “What does it look like in your farm operation when there is trust?” And on the flipside: “What does the farm operation look like when there is lack of trust?” The answers to those questions are the first step in building the bridge of trust on your farm. In this next section we will talk about three common types of trust that can be found in almost any business setting.
Types of Trust
Let’s look at three different types of trust: interpersonal, competence, and institutional trust.
Interpersonal Trust
Interpersonal trust is based on the relationship you have with another person, and the length of time you have known them. If someone continues to show they can be relied upon in a predictable way, they are considered trustworthy. An example of this in farm succession could be the relationship between the owner generation and the successor generation. Decisions about the farm operation are shared openly between the owner and successors. Both the owner and the successors care for each other, and they want what’s best for each other. It’s when either generation, in small ways, is not doing what they say they are going to do that trust can begin to break down.
Competence Trust
Competence trust is based on skills, abilities, and experience the other person has. If the other person has the expertise to aid in solving a problem, then we are more likely to trust their judgment or advice. From a farm succession standpoint, it could be that the owner generation begins to hand over management decisions to the successor generation so they can incorporate the experiences and expertise they acquired, whether that be through a degree in an agriculture-related field or working with another farming operation. If the owner generation encourages the successor generation to go off farm to get a degree and/or work off farm, they trust that the successor generation will eventually come back and apply the skills and knowledge they gained to the farm operation.
Institutional Trust
Institutional trust is based on whether we see the “system,” the rules, or the processes as being
trustworthy. We see this in farm succession planning as well. If the owner generation is open and clear about farm financials and the current state of the operation with their successor generation, this creates a culture of trust that the owner generation isn’t hiding problems or concerns they have with the state of the business. This opens up a clear line of communication between one generation and the next. Another example would be that the successor generation will trust that there is a plan in place for distribution of assets, and that it will be clearly communicated among all the heirs (both on and off farm).
Breakdowns of Trust
Now that we have covered types of trust, let’s explore what might impact trust in the farm operation. A lot of farm operations are family owned. For some family-owned farms, it might be hard to keep problems that arise in the family from impacting the farming operation. No one size fits all and each farm operation is different; however, there are some acts or instances that could impact trust in all farm businesses.
The first way trust can be broken would be an act of commission. This is when a person, group, or organization does or says something that is inconsistent with what you expect. For example, an owner generation who is normally open about decisions on the farm decides to sell without even consulting the successor generation about taking over the farm someday.
The other universal way trust can be broken is through an act of omission. This is when a person, group, or organization fails to do what they say they are going to do. An example of this would be the successor generation planning to go to school or work on another farm operation in the hopes of one day taking over their own farm, but then not following through on their skill building and becoming unable to run the farm operation. Maybe either generation struggles with addiction, and it gets in the way of their financial ability to manage the farm.
These breakdowns of trust may seem hard to overcome. In the next section we will talk about ways to overcome those challenges by using “posts” to build your bridge of trust on your farm.
Building the Bridge
Bridges help us to get from one point to another. In order to help you visualize building a metaphorical bridge, it may be helpful to have a pen and paper handy.
On that sheet of paper you are going to draw two points—you can use half circles for hills or whatever symbol would make the most sense to you. You are going to leave space between the two hills. This space will represent the barriers to building trust. On one side you are going to write down what trust looks like currently, and on the other side you will write down the end goal you want to achieve. Having a clear idea of what that goal looks like will help you know when you have reached that side of the bridge. Writing the goal down will help with that visualization.
For a farm business, this will look different for each person involved with the operation. Maybe the end goal is to transfer management completely in the next 5 years from the owner generation to the successor generation. Or maybe it’s a simpler goal of having more consistent farm meetings that include an agenda to help stay on task.
Building a bridge may seem as easy as laying a few boards across a short gap. This is most likely a temporary solution and not a more permanent, sustainable solution to reach the other side. This is where our posts come into play. The following posts are not the end all be all, but suggestions on what foundations you can use to overcome the barriers to trust on your farm and build your bridge.
Care
This could be seen as a cornerstone piece: If care is not there, the bridge may not be sturdy enough to get you to the other side. Care can be seen as having the other person’s thoughts and feelings in mind when making decisions or taking action. If the successor knows that the owner of the farm has their interest at heart when making decisions about the operation, they are more likely to go along with those changes.
Reliability
You do what you say you will do. If there is consistent follow through on decisions and actions, this leads to a strong culture of trust. If someone is saying they are going to do something and they never follow through, this can lead to mistrust.
Competency
This post is going back to competence trust. Are there the skills, experiences, and expertise to get the task done? This type of trust can be seen when management is being transferred from one generation to the next.
Clarity
Are the expectations made clear? Does everyone involved with a decision or action know what the expectations are? Do they know who they can turn to if they are unsure of what action steps to take next? Is the financial standing of the farm operation transparent between generations?
Integrity/Accountability
When a mistake is made, do you own up to it? Have you apologized and offered ways to make amends? Being accountable and having integrity is choosing to be courageous and step up even if the situation may be uncomfortable. It’s being willing to ask for help when you need it.
Building Back Trust
We talked about what trust is, how trust can be broken, and steps to creating a more trustworthy environment, but what do you do when trust is broken or not there? Let’s revisit the three types of trust and how they can relate back to the posts you just created.
Rebuilding Interpersonal Trust
This can relate back to care and integrity/accountability posts for your bridge. The following are questions to ask yourself as you are working to build back that interpersonal trust. They come from the publication “How to Create Trust in Family Firms and Rebuild It When It’s Lost: Implications for Practice and Research,” by W. Gibb Dyer.
- Did the offending person apologize? Are they remorseful for their actions?
- Can the person change? If we believe that someone who has violated our trust can change, we are more willing to begin again to build that trust back.
- Are they able to “make up” for that lost trust?
- Is the offended party willing to forgive? If trust is to be restored, it’s important that both parties are willing to move forward, that the offended person is willing to be vulnerable with the other person again.
Rebuilding Competence Trust
When it comes to competence trust, it’s all about relating back to the skills, abilities, and experiences of those involved. These can relate back to the reliability and competency posts from when the bridge was being built. Some of the suggestions below come from the Dyer publication, and though it may not be strictly farm focused, a lot of the principles can apply to farm businesses.
- Institute training to improve family and non-family employees’ skills—this can be especially important as successors move into decision-making roles.
- Develop competence-based performance appraisals. It might feel awkward to evaluate family members, but it may be necessary to build up skills and competencies to help manage the operation.
- Develop fair procedures to deal with low performance compared to expectations. This could be especially helpful for farms where the family dynamic of parent/child reigns as the communication style. This can help everyone with “clarity,” which is one of the crucial posts to building that bridge of trust.
- Require credentials certifying competence. It may be a 2- or 4-year degree, or a requirement that the successor work off the farm for a time to get experience being an employee for someone other than the family.
Rebuilding Institutional Trust
Let’s talk more about clarity. This will be the key component to building or rebuilding institutional trust. Below are some suggestions on how to build clarity.
- Clarify and share details about the business.
- Sharing information and details about how the farm is handled day to day can help ease the transition from one generation to the next. Sharing should be done as a mentor or professional development guide and done over time rather than in response to conflict or stress. An example of conflict or stress is where a successor generation is asking for more information and the owner generation is reactionary and overshares or overwhelms them with information. Make sure that the successor generation is introduced as a partner and knows who the key people are that help make the farm run (e.g., accountants, lawyers, ag services the farm utilizes, etc.).
- Share financial information on firm performance and assets.
- Being clear about the farm’s financial information and performance before the successor generation assumes management responsibility will aid in a smoother transition. This will help by instilling trust in the successor generation that they have a full understanding of what is happening, and a trust in the owner generation that the successor generation will be able to continue the farm and even aid in improvements as needed.
- Develop a succession plan that is shared with key parties—including successors, off-farm children, employees, lenders, and other stakeholders.
- If it isn’t written down, does it exist? Having a clearly defined plan that both the owner generation and successor generation had a hand in developing will help to instill trust that when the time comes for the transition to happen, it can withstand bumps along the way.
- Make decision-making processes transparent.
- If decisions are made together or out in the open and not behind closed doors, it can help to build trust with both the owner generation and the successor generation. They are then aware of what decisions are being made that may have an impact on them. There may still be decisions that are solely made by the owner generation. It is important for everyone to know which ones are consensus and which are to be made by the owner generation and why. The decision still needs to be shared and an explanation given for why that decision was made. Have more of a mentor/mentee focus to these decisions.
- Have outside performance reviews.
- Having an outsider’s perspective can help navigate those bigger trust issues, especially when it comes to farm families. It can be difficult to separate family life from the business. This can be a source of tension and distrust.
Conclusion
In summary, to build that bridge of trust, it is important to look at what “posts” you need that can help you to achieve that goal. Though no two farm family businesses are the same, understanding where trust is at and how it’s built can help with the farm succession process. Below are resources used to develop this article and may help you as you continue your farm succession journey.
Resources
Becoming an Employer of Choice: farms.extension.wisc.edu/programs/becoming-the-employer-of-choice/
Brown, B. (2018). Dare to lead: Brave work, tough conversations, whole hearts. New York: Random House.
Dyer, W. G. (2012). How to create trust in family firms and rebuild it when it’s lost: Implications for practice and research. In A.L. Carsud & M. Brännback (Eds.), Understanding family businesses: Undiscovered approaches, unique perspectives, and neglected topics (pp. 157–168). Springer.
Farm Management Topic Hub: https://farms.extension.wisc.edu/
Feltman, C. (2009). The Thin Book of trust: An essential primer for building trust at work. Bend, OR: Thin Book Publishing Co.
Hewlett, J. P. (2011, December). Trust in the family business. Enterprising Rural Families, 7(12).
Highlights from The Thin Book of Trust: An Essential Primer for Building Trust at Work: https://uwtdev3.tacoma.uw.edu/~jamesini/uwtd8main_staging/web/sites/default/files/2020-09/thinbookoftrust.pdf
Horsager, D. (2012). The trust edge: How top leaders gain faster results, deeper relationships, and a stronger bottom line. New York: The Free Press.
Reflection Question
Do you have a relationship within the family and/or farm that needs to rebuild trust? Are there strategies in this article you can use to rebuild the trust? Write down a few ideas from the article you are willing to try.
The worksheet titled Factors Affecting the
Farm Business Transition (pp. 10-11) from Cultivating Your Farm’s Future: A workbook for farm succession planning may help you start a conversation around the topic from this chapter.

This article is a sample from a larger publication about farm succession, titled “Cultivating Continuity: Expert Insights for Farm Succession“
About the Author

Kaitlyn Davis
Agriculture Outreach Specialist
Kaitlyn Davis is an Agriculture Outreach Specialist and certified Farm Succession coordinator, with current projects of Cultivating Your Farm’s Future Workbook development, Building the Bridge of Trust in Farm Succession, and guiding farmers through succession planning.